Harlot / Strumpet / hustler / Pro / Slut / Lady of the evening - the list goes like that, seems endless. I know you must have got the point - Yes,I am talking about the class that we consider as dirty, out cast or evil. But how many of us have taken an extra step or tried to think from their position ?
Being a person who has spent considerable time in travelling, that also having opportunity to meet and mingle a lot of people I can say this - What other women do for pleasure, they do it for money (Not a new quote but borrowed). Most of the girls who calls themselves as high class & roam around does exactly the same things but they do it for fun. Maybe they do have it in different names - one time stand, happy time, mutual friends, cool relation etc. That's about the high class people, who remains good n great even after doing all these things. I am not saying that's bad, because that's just a means of enjoying their life and no one can blame them for spending their life in a joyous manner; my whole point is that we don't have to blame some one who does the same for money.
Nobody from the so called out cast class are doing this for pleasure from that, but they are staying in this field either due to pressure, helplessness or a desire help their rest of the family. Whomever I have met in this field had a sad story about being at that position, also an explanation about a set of people who is waiting the money from her so as to lead their life :- Father on death bed, mother trying hard to run the family, sisters & brothers who needs to be educated. So they are putting themselves in this profession for a greater good, its something that we should admire on - rather than blaming them. If we cannot help them to lead a better life, how can we blame them ? Let them do what they want with their life, we should not be asking questions or blaming a group unless we can make them happy and upgrade their living standards.
Being a person who has spent considerable time in travelling, that also having opportunity to meet and mingle a lot of people I can say this - What other women do for pleasure, they do it for money (Not a new quote but borrowed). Most of the girls who calls themselves as high class & roam around does exactly the same things but they do it for fun. Maybe they do have it in different names - one time stand, happy time, mutual friends, cool relation etc. That's about the high class people, who remains good n great even after doing all these things. I am not saying that's bad, because that's just a means of enjoying their life and no one can blame them for spending their life in a joyous manner; my whole point is that we don't have to blame some one who does the same for money.
Nobody from the so called out cast class are doing this for pleasure from that, but they are staying in this field either due to pressure, helplessness or a desire help their rest of the family. Whomever I have met in this field had a sad story about being at that position, also an explanation about a set of people who is waiting the money from her so as to lead their life :- Father on death bed, mother trying hard to run the family, sisters & brothers who needs to be educated. So they are putting themselves in this profession for a greater good, its something that we should admire on - rather than blaming them. If we cannot help them to lead a better life, how can we blame them ? Let them do what they want with their life, we should not be asking questions or blaming a group unless we can make them happy and upgrade their living standards.
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